About a week ago, I began chatting with this guy, Evan, on Grindr. He lives about 30 minutes from me in NH and seemed like a really chill, cleancut guy. Unlike most interactions on Grindr, we actually conversed for a bit about our jobs, hobbies, and interests. He’s a year younger than me, bi, and dl. I’m also discreet, since I’m partnered with a guy whom I haven’t been intimate with in years. Evan and I seemed like a good match.After chatting for a while, we slowly turned our conversation to our sexual interests and began sharing pics. Interest piqued on both sides, so we moved our conversation to Snapchat. I’m reluctant to give out my Snapchat handle, because I use it casually with friends. But Evan seemed chill and discreet enough, so I sent him a friend request. That evening, he requested some dirtier pics with me in specific poses and performing certain actions. I sent over a few timed snaps and his attitude quickly changed.“Turn off the fucking timer. That shit pisses me off.”
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