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Do People Confuse Altruism/Egotism/Obsession For Love In A Relationship?
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2021-08-16 13:54:12"We're going live in 1, 2, 3, go."
"Welcome to the women's talk show. My name is Jane Fryer, your host and I have amazing women with me. Over here are Venessa Davidson, Lucy Potter, Helen Davidson, and Belinda Peter. Grab your popcorn as we hear what this amazing woman has to say about altruism in a relationship. The question is, do people confuse altruism for love in a relationship?"
"I was told when I was little that 'Greater love hath no man than he lay down his life for his friend.' So, I was encouraged to deny myself to give others." Helen said. "I understood that love as the negation by abnegation of myself. And also, I understood it as the forgetfulness of myself in humility, self-denial, and patience. I can say that altruism is confused with love in sexual relationships, it perverts the majority. This altruism I was taught and perhaps, everyone was taught, is usually mistaken for love in a relationship."
"Yes, I agree with her," Lucy said. "This
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