No matter how beautiful, how organic, how instant, and how divine your relationship is, it will always need hard work to make it work. Look, we, humans are complicated, and our relationships are even more complicated. It’s impossible to have a relationship without its ups and downs. So please don’t get into a relationship if you are not willing to put work, effort, sweat, and tears into making it work. Because a relationship will take all that and more.The most important thing to make a relationship work is love. I know it’s obvious. But it’s very, very, very rare that people in a relationship are also in love, true love. So don’t get into any relationship or any marriage without real, true, and genuine love. But the sad truth is that even when we start with real love, the love story can go bad. How?First, you must accept the fact that you don’t own another person. Your partner is a different human being with a different brain and different soul. You must learn to respect that diffe
No things, no people , there is nothing permanent in this world. Even we ourselves are not here in this world forever. Every single thing which is being created will come to an end one fine day.The world keeps working on every single day, time keeps passing at each second and so does life goes on.The more we attach ourselves to the things we have, to the people around us and to all our material possessions, the more we will be disappointed. The more we will feel hurt at the time when it's gone forever. All our possessions, our wealth, our relationships, the people around us and the ones attached to us, the things we like, our successes, our failures, our current circumstances, the situation in which we are today.. Nothing will stay forever. If we analyse it carefully, all these things just plays various roles in the journey of our life and in the process, we grow old and our life comes to an end. Are we going to carry anything from these with ourselves when our life ends and we will
She did not grow up, wanting to find a prince. She was happy in her little world. She liked little things, but she had big dreams, some scary dreams. But despite all that, she fell in love. She felt defenseless. She felt vulnerable. And love made her heart swing. Reluctantly, she fell deeper and deeper into love. And it was all heaven at first. That feeling, that touch, those words, that smile, and that kiss, it all felt heaven. And before she knew it, she was imagining a love story in her head, a perfect love story that she read in novels and saw on screen. She built that dream in her head. And she poured every inch of her soul into that dream.But then, life broke her. She was left heartbroken. She could not accept for a long time that this actually happened to her. She lived in denial for months that it was just a phase and they will be back. But there was no coming back from that hell. She sunk deeper and deeper into that hole. And it felt so helpless and so frustrating. Nothing h
What makes relationship stronger is nothing but 'Memories'. Everything in this earth is controlled by memories. Actually, love is also nothing but a memory. You have to cherish old things, the things which ones made you laugh, which made you happy, which cured you, and the ones which made you fall in love. The one who fantasize these old memories time to time never gets bored of his/her relationship.Love is nothing but a memory.This is something really true. If you were to forget everything just after they happened, you would have never fell in love with someone. People think about someone. Someone whose words, voice or actions touched their soul. Those flashbacks keep coming in their mind, that specific memory of that ‘someone’ makes them fall in love.So, instead of finding things to light up your relationship, you should sometimes cherish those old thoughts, make your partner think about those things, and for sure your bond would get stronger.Also it's not possible that everyone
The less you cling to something, the less fear you have of losing that something or someone. The less fear you have, the more love you have. It is true that you love even more when you let go of the need for it. Love grows when grief goes. Make your love stronger than your fear. Strive to make your love greater than your need and let love be the most powerful force in your life. Then nothing can overcome you.Lauren felt her heart thumping hard in her ribcage, Brandon is asking for the truth they have hurried down long back. Now they don't want to talk about it ever. Because they knew it would hurt Claire and maybe the danger from which they were trying to save their children would come along."Brandon, we have forgotten all this. We don't like to bring back those sad parts ", Lauren said with difficulty, Mathew holding her hand to support her. But Brandon was not letting it go. " I know about Jason, Claire herself told me everything. But now I want to hear the rest from you." Bran
Claire's pov you understood me when i had a lot of things in my head. you understood that sometimes i just need time to process things – be it my ringing phone or a life crisis.You understand that I bottle up my feelings, that I can go on for days pretending that everything is okay, that I'm having a lovely day, and that sometimes, I just don't say what is on my mind. but you also understood – all i need is a little coaxing to spill the beans.you understood when i fought with you over little things. you understood that everyone has traumas, and what’s pebble to you, could be a mountain to me.you understood me when i wanted time for myself. you saw that my presence always became better once i got an escape. you saw how much it meant to me to be able to get some me-time even if it meant cutting down on your own time with me.you understood when i made mistakes, when i caused you pain, when i apologised. you treated me with so much care that it made me wonder why. you always came thr
Life makes you go through so much that years after years, your soul gets painted with one more layer of mixed emotions. You change a little, every year. And in some time, you change enough to look back and say “What? That was me? Seriously?” And this change is good. Why? Because you were too stupid to back then. You were too pure, too kind, and too innocent. You believed every smiling face. You trusted every word. But you were betrayed by the very people for whom you did so much. So life slapped you into the reality of this cruel, fake world. Your first reaction was to feel angry and shattered. And you did punish yourself for the pain you allowed others to cause you. But with time, you started to learn more and more with every heartbreak. You started to change. You still thought you were doing the wrong thing by becoming more practical and less emotional, but you realized that it was a choice between crying and smiling. You chose your smile. You started keeping a distance from most pe
Brandon's pov I have never met anyone like her. It’s like she took some time machine and walked into this new, modern, and alien world. Everything was so basic for her, so simple. She wore that pure, innocence in her smile. She had that softness in her voice that would make you lean forward, maybe out of respect. She would look at the mirror and just quickly nod in agreement “Hmm, it’s okay." There was no bitterness in her soul. She would often tell me “We should not talk bad about others. God is watching.” And yes, about her and her God, she would leave every problem to God. In her happiness, she would keep praising God. In her pain, she would keep praying to God. When I would joke about God, she would get so annoyed with me. She wanted to say bad things to me for mocking God. But then, God forbid her from saying bad things. See? So cute.I was not like her, never. I said bad things about many people. We were never the same souls. But she always told me that we are the same. "You ar